Most people when they're in love invent every kind of reason to persuade themselves that it's only sensible to do what they want, I suppose that's why there are so many disastrous marriages. They are like those who put their affairs in the hands of someone they know to be a crook, but who happens to be an intimate friend because, unwilling to believe that a crook is a crook first and a friend afterwards, they are convinced that, however dishonest he may be with others, he won't be so with them.——William Somerset Maugham.